What is Post Abortion Syndrome?
- Running from the pain?
- Does depression haunt you?
- Are you an emotional wreck?
- Have you had nightmares?
- Do you have guilt you can’t get rid of?
- Do you have unexplained anxiety?
J. Denton Collins, a therapist in Canada gives a good definition- “PAS is a PTSD commonly experienced by women who have had one or more abortions. Through the process of denial, the woman has blocked the natural grieving process of the death of her child and often has denied her responsibility in the abortion. The denial or suppression blocks the healing process and the possibility of forgiveness for herself and others. The trauma often manifests itself as a breakdown of function in the psychological, physical, or spiritual areas.”
Some of the symptoms of PAS are...
- Guilt - I made a mistake, I don’t know how to fix it, so I’ll just beat myself up for the rest of my life to pay for it.
- Shame - I AM a mistake, my whole life is a mistake, I’m going to go behind this wall or into this closet and not let anyone see the real me. They would hate me if they knew what I did.
- Depression - I can’t get out of bed, I can’t go to work, I feel so bad and I don't know why.
- Re-experience - Having nightmares, playing out in head everything that happened at abortion clinic.
- Wanting to be pregnant again - I’ll have this replacement child and he’ll make up for everything.
- Lack of bonding - Either not feeling worthy to have healthy normal child so lacks bonding or becomes the perfect mother.
- Anniversary syndrome - all symptoms become stronger at anniversary of abortion or due date
- Alcohol or substance abuse -using outside stimulants to numb the conscience to try and erase memories.
The words Post Abortion Syndrome (PAS) are often used to describe one's inability to: (1) process the fear, anger, sadness and guilt surrounding the abortion experience, (2) grieve the loss of the baby, and (3) come to peace with God, his or herself and others involved in the abortion decision.
While PAS may not be formally recognized, it is plaguing millions of people. We are here to tell you that there is HOPE!
We can help you. SAVEONE is a life-changing and life-saving ministry touching one life at a time. We are a non-profit organization dedicated to helping women and men emotionally heal after making the choice of abortion. SAVEONE will focus on providing answers to life's most difficult questions; Is there life after an abortion? Can you really overcome and be set free? What happens to your unborn child? Where do you go from here?
SAVEONE offers a Bible Study that teaches men and women how to be set free. At SAVEONE your privacy is of utmost importance. This class is taught in a group setting with others who have experienced the hurt that is brought on by abortion.
Classes are offered on a regular basis. Call or email for availability in your area. At SAVEONE there is always someone who cares. Let us help you.